I have a terminal illness. Since birth I’ve known about it and I know one day I’ll die from it. I don’t hate it. As a matter of fact I feel free by it. Liberated. There will be an end, at some point, somewhere to this story. My story.
Many of you may also have this terminal illness. Its called death.
While morbid and uncomfortable to talk about, death is real. It captures us all. No warning. With no calendar invite or notification. Some may have a warning or ailment that provides a hint.
From the moment we are born we are facing death. The uncertain nature of the only certain thing in our lives. As I’ve studied and have subscribed to Stoicism, I’ve learned much of the meaning and purpose of life.
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What is the point you ask? To live a better life. To be intentional with the little, unknown time we have. Life can be short. Or like Seneca, stoic philosopher says, “life is long if we know how to use it.” Knowing I’m going to die and accepting that prepares me for a good life What I want to do and what I don’t want to do. Everything becomes clear. By having less time to waste you do only what is essential, only what matters most to you.
Thought Provoking Question 1: How can you engage with this idea that we all have a terminal illness called death? (comment below)
Thought Provoking Question 2: What are you going to start doing and stop doing to live the life you want? (comment below)
Life is relatively short. However, by living well, on our terms, within our nature, we can have a long life. Filled with all the things we need and want.
As the stoics say, “memento mori” - remember you will die. I wear a ring with that inscribed. A great reminder for me, when needed. Remember, you will die. This is not a pass to live recklessly. This is a declaration of your independence. Memento Mori.
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Thanks for the comment. That’s exactly the thought experiment I came to. It’s been very helpful for me to focus on what I love and matters.
Interesting! Personally, I’m not sure I’d want to live thinking of death as an illness. But the thought experiment is helpful