Couples Stop Doing This
In a group setting, at a party, a couple goes back and forth in a joking manner, on a mistake made. “It was your fault because….” The other…
In a group setting, at a party, a couple goes back and forth in a joking manner, on a mistake made. “It was your fault because….” The other person, “no. You are to blame since…”
This is embarrassing. No one is laughing with you, rather at you. Married or dating, couples please stop discussing internal issues, externally. We do not want to hear them, it makes us uncomfortable and you are embarrassing yourselves.
“Airing your dirty laundry” is not an effective way to handle matters in your relationship. To that on the car ride home or before you get to the event you’re attending. All of this behavior really speaks to a bigger issue at hand. A form of cancer eating away parts of your marriage or relationship. The damage today may not be present. However, over time it can really cause permanent damage.
Too often what the couple thinks is playful, lays the foundation for more revealing truths to come out, in front of others. Infidelity, one partner being a slob or lazy and the other who won’t ever achieve anything.
Work on your issues in private. Seek professional help if needed. Your friends and family should not be your audience while you do it.
Dan Roman is a Husband, Father, and writer that releases a daily blog. A quick read on money, marriage, parenting, self-improvement, development and his thoughts. Dan is also Founder/Creator of Roman Solutions, a Personal Finance Firm that currently provides coaching and education.
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